Get A Grip

I thought of the expression,“get a grip,” the other day when I had to face the reality of a serious medical condition that I’ve been dealing with for the past several months, a medical condition that’s going to require surgery to fix it—brain surgery.

The medical condition I’ve been having is Trigeminal Neuralgia, and the neurosurgeon at OU Medical Center told me that he would perform a Microvascular Decompression on my brain to correct it.

However, when I thought of the phrase, “get a grip,” I wasn’t thinking in terms of its usual usage, that is, I wasn’t telling myself to control my emotions so I wouldn’t have a breakdown when I heard what the surgeon said he needed to do.

This surgery requires him to remove a portion of my skull near my ear and separate the superior cerebellar artery in my brain from the trigeminal nerve that controls the feeling in my face. (This artery sits so close to the trigeminal nerve that it has worn it down on the right side of my brain, which is why it’s continually sending painful electrical shocks to the right side of my face, and unfortunately, I’m allergic to the medicines that are usually able to control this condition.)

When I heard what the surgeon said he needed to do, instead of thinking about the usual meaning of “get a grip,” I thought about all the Scriptures that assure me that God will give me strength and uphold me during the difficult times I face in my life—a promise He’s given to all believers.

Isaiah 41:10 is one of those verses: “Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”

Not only does God uphold me—that is, He grips me tight—He also tells me to hold onto Him—yes, He’s told me to get a grip on Him.

A verse that says this very thing is Proverbs 4:13: Take hold of my instructions; don’t let them go. Guard them, for they are the key to life.”

As I undergo this procedure and the recovery period that follows—which could be several weeks—I’m  going to “get a grip”by holding on to everything God has promised me in His Word, all those verses that assure me that whatever He allows to come into my life has first passed through His hands and will ultimately bring Him glory and be for my good and benefit.

These are the same promises you can lean on to “get a grip” during the trials you’re facing. I’ve listed a few of those promises below, but there are many more in His Word.

Joshua 1:9—“Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.”  

Psalm 73:26—“My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.”

Philippians 4:13—“I can do all things through him who strengthens me.”

  1. talentedquickly6aae8bc826's avatar
    talentedquickly6aae8bc826
    March 5, 2026 at 6:27 am

    You and your family are in our prayers!

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    • March 5, 2026 at 11:43 pm

      Thank you so much! I believe the prayers of God’s children are sustaining me through this difficult period in my life. You can send me any prayer requests you have by emailing me directly at author@luanaehrlich.com.

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    drdonnajwright2650
    March 6, 2026 at 10:23 am

    Praying for you as you do this surgery. My husband had both a brain biopsy and craniotomy. I was amazed at the skill and expertise these neurosurgeons have. God can guide their hand.

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    • March 6, 2026 at 12:23 pm

      Thanks for your prayers. And thanks for this encouraging word from you. I appreciate your sharing how the Lord has blessed you and your husband by giving the surgeon guidance.

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    Susan Gamwell Saunders
    March 12, 2026 at 1:06 pm

    Thankful that you and your neurosurgeon are going ahead with the MVD surgery. So sorry you have to wait a few more weeks, but you have the assurance that the surgery will be forthcoming and with it the relief from the pain. Thanks for sharing the new take on “get a grip.” I need to do that myself with some current health issues disrupting my life too.

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    • March 12, 2026 at 11:11 pm

      I’m also sorry for the health issues you are having, Susan, and I also prayed for you today. I’m glad you’re “holding on” to His amazing grace as you deal with your own issues. May the Lord bless you and keep you and cause his face to shine upon you and give you peace.(Numbers 6:24-26).

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